Thursday, December 22, 2011

Forgotten Childhood



               When I was around five to ten, I thought that like me, every child in this world are ought only to play and go to school. Then I learned better. The world is not as child-friendly as I thought it must’ve been. Some are born lucky to see the world in the same joyous child-like perspective that I did, while others have seen the sad view in such an early age.
               Jam-al, an eleven year old boy from the streets of Davao City is the youngest among his five other siblings who’d forgotten their childhood and how it feels like. He works as a rose and sampaguita vendor every night.

               “Pagkahuman sa klase muanhi dayun ko diri, mamaligya. Gikan alas-kwatro sa hapon hangtud kuhaon ming papa mga alas-dose. Kung wala pud klase, naa na ko diri udto pa lang,” Jam-al explains.

               It was a good thing though to know that he is still studying. But it isn’t a sort of beautiful life story to hear. Both his parents are working too. His mother was also a street vendor, his father a tricycle driver. And it’s a depressing reality that his parents’ earnings are still not enough. Jam-al and his siblings had to help them work, “para maka-kaon mi, makabayad sa mga utang, ug maka-skwela didto sa may Quezon dapit. Pero ni-undang man akong isa ka kuya ug skwela. First year high school unta siya karon. Human niya sa trabaho, diha pa siya muskwela daw” says the young boy.

               Jam-al is just one among the other 2.4 million working children in the country. Based on NGO’s data, in Davao City and in its neighboring provinces, 60% are engaged and 40% are at risk.

               It was around June last year when Davao City’s Child Labor Task Force reorganized to continuously ensure and uphold the advocacy to combat child labor through education. And I guess Jam-al’s parents were not one of those who were provided a child labor awareness seminar. And there are still a lot more children out there who are suffering the cruel world of child labor from the obvious to the worse kind of it.

               The sadness and sorrow in Jam-al’s eyes were deeply evident. He told me his story in a very disheartening and gloomy tone. But he manages to fake a strong and mature approach and I can see that he wears a mask to tell me that he is not a weak child and I must not pity him but his eyes tells me otherwise.

               When I asked him what he wanted to be when he grows up and be given a chance to pursue college, he says, “mag-trabaho na lang siguro ko te. Sayang ang kwarta. Mas maayo pa itabang ilaha papa ug mama.”

               And those words lingered in my mind like it was the iceberg and I was the Titanic. From that night on, I will never see those children in the streets selling different kind of stuff as annoying little brats. They’re little kids who chose to forget their childhood. They chose to work. They chose to help their parents, their siblings, their loved ones and not themselves. How about you? What kind of life did you choose?

Better than that


               The dirtiest things in this country are neither found in your garbage bins nor in your septic tanks. It’s all scattered and messed up in your television and does not go with a rated PG. One of these gullible trashes is the entire CGMA drama series.
             
  Don’t get me wrong. I am not saying that this issue is another piece of crap that the government makes a big deal of to divert the people’s attention from what is rather more important. Of course her case is an essential matter to discuss, but it’s of course, like any sensationalized news - overrated.

               It’s a common knowledge that most, if not all, of the Filipino population loath the former president.

               I cannot blame the people for hating her this much. I am a witness of how the news on television, radio or print has been cruelly subjective in criticizing her administration before. The way that the majority responds towards this issue is not a mind-blowing reality anymore. Our mindsets have been influenced a very long time ago and it heightens until the end of her administration, so what’s new?

               If killing her wasn’t a crime, then it’ll be the most favorable option. But of course, it’s not and it must never be our nation’s means for her execution. But it’s pathetic enough that her minions thought of it as the Palace’s plot. It may be because they are already that desperate to make Arroyo look like the piteous bullied creature or they’ve become crazy and paranoid or it’s an unconscious truth. Well, we’ll never really know, because as it has always been, the truth is something that can be hidden or distorted by any means through the help of the media.

               Of course, the whole “De Lima did that because she wants to make a good impression and favorable reputation for the 2013 Elections” is also not a heck of a deal. Coming from the former administration, their master had taught them well. Only De Lima was better. She knows when does loyalty not a very helpful thing to consider. Again, this is not something new. We’ve seen it before.

               But if we were really Filipinos by heart, I believe that we were better than this. I believe that we are democratic individuals who are capable of weighing what is right from wrong. And we know justice only justice isn’t that friendly to us. Rizal once taught us the importance of thinking before getting ourselves into a fight. However, it a disappointing reality that we have been acting like dogs rather than human. Ever since the Estrada People Power, we have been acting like slaves of what those in power wants us to only see. And as a student journalist, I am also turning into a ruthless mutt that craves for the bad news to feed it to the readers. I am not looking at things in a healthier perspective in order to help in changing the people’s mindset of the government being a hopeless prison of lying demons.

               I am not appealing to your senses because I am a pro-GMA. I am writing as one of the youth that you believe to be a catalyst of hope for the nation. And I am writing to remind you of what a real Filipino is and how a real Filipino thinks before he acts. Think before you judge the CGMA issue, consider the moral values you’ve not just once but a hundred times taught in your home, your church and your school.

               Think about it. Don’t become like another hopeless crap worse than a filthy sewer.  Remember, you’re more than that. We, Filipinos, are more than that.